September 2010
17 posts
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Why is that we can find a million reasons to beg for the attention of those who have wronged us but we can’t find one reason to stick around for those who have not.
-tbrumm
better believe i'm fearless.
Jump into things without thinking. Live it, breathe it and most of all, enjoy it. Who cares if it hurts a month from now, who cares if it never meant enough to hurt you at all. It’s ok to not be sure, life is about experiences and without them we would never be sure about anything. I’m sure that I’m happy and that one way or another I will learn something from this, that’s...
you brought me to life.
We hold onto the relationships that make us give. We allow another person to take from us. Take our wisdom, our talents, our love and our power to walk away untouched, unharmed. Because there’s some comfort in knowing someone wanted what you had to give. You’ve been holding out on all the others for the one who was worth giving to. Now that you’re giving yourself to...
sometimes wishin's just no good.
Relationships create limits and girls like us should be limitless. The world wants their own little piece of you, so give it to them instead of that boy who doesn’t appreciate it. You’re bound to get something meaningful back, something much more than some l-o-v-e word.
-tbrumm
check yes or no.
it’s the little girl inside of us that yearns for boys instead of men. There is something about a boys immaturity and uncertainty that comforts us, it makes us feel needed knowing that these boys will benefit from having us in their lives; where as men don’t need us, they want us and we of all people know how quickly wants change. -tbrumm
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i-n-d- OH shit you can't spell.
independence isn’t handed to you, it’s achieved over time. It’s being strong enough to believe in love even after it has failed you. It’s loving yourself more than anyone could ever love you. Forgiving but not forgetting, committing without depending, loving without lowering your standards.
-tbrumm
tell me darling, do you wish we'd fall in love?
I couldn’t figure it out but it’s the fact that you like puzzles. The way you observe me as if i’m your very own puzzle— trying to get an idea of what i look like in my entirety because i only give you glimpses into my world and you love that. Because all the others were like crossword puzzles you had already completed, too predictable to keep you focused. And your attempts...
bulletproof.
I learned that he could hurt my feelings but he could no longer break my heart, and that there is a world of difference between the two.
-tbrumm
been drawin' the line and watchin' it fall.
he might have broken your heart but what really hurts, is knowing that you didn’t think enough of yourself to walk away.
You learn with time that you can’t forgive the boy who broke your heart until you forgive yourself for letting him.
-tbrumm
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dutty dutty.
I chuckled a bit with a slight sink inside of my chest. I wouldn’t say because I miss all that, but because I wasted so much time on missing it— on hoping that it would become something worth missing.
-tbrumm
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remember to breathe.
“it’s easier said than done” no, it really is that easy. Make up your mind and take control of your life. You choose to love him, you choose to let it hurt, you choose to sit around and allow him to dictate your mood that day. How about choosing to love yourself more than you could ever love anyone else? It’s a start.
Choose to wake up in the morning thinking about...
whaddya want from me?
have you ever noticed how helpless you feel when asking “what do you want from me?” our tone is so stern but inside we anxiously await a response that will bring our heart back out of our stomache and into our chest, where it belongs. chances are if you have to ask the question then you’ve given and gotten nothing in return, because if you had you wouldnt have to ask. You...
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maybe you're gonna be the one that saves me.
mis⋅take
–noun
1. an error in action, calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge, etc.
Maybe we had a great reason, maybe we didn’t, but either way that one reason was enough for us to let our guard down. And maybe we cared how we felt in that very moment; we cared that we may never feel that way again and maybe we knew plenty, maybe we knew...
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would you change?
Change is a second chance many people dont have the courage to take, its a big scary thing full of unknowns. Sometimes we have to accept that all we know is that we dont know. We have to stop holding our breath for moments that may never come, stop dodging potential relationships because they’re nothing like our last; sometimes change is the single best thing we have in life. -tbrumm
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Ho Ho Hopefully.
How can you keep hoping when hope is what got you here in the first place? You knew he wasn’t different, you knew it would hurt, you just hoped it wouldnt.
-tbrumm
love you to pieces.
When you’re shattered, what piece do you pick up first? It’s an on going circle bc you’re strengths are now the things that make you weaker than ever and the things that make you feel strong are really just working against you and setting you up to be weak in situations soon to come. One piece doesnt fit w/o the other and usually those other pieces arent in your control. One is...
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happiness, you can't make it come or go.
Alot of people have been saying to me.. “if you’re happy, then do it… stop trying to think ahead.. ” and its made me think, am i that desperate to feel a little bit of happiness? Does happiness really only come from being in a relationship, from other people?
As said by The Fray “happiness is a little more like knockin’ on your door, you just let it in.”...
